Family fallout

Hi Blogworld,

Yesterday was a busy day for me. I won a court battle with my ex.  And stoothd up for myself to him.  No more Jenny the doormat.  I sadly ended my relationship with my sister.  One sister realizes I am with Teddy for love not money.  The other let me know she thinks he should be protected from me.  That I made him sell his house and move.  And doesn't want me to bring him to her daughter's wedding this summer.  I know she thought I was moving in cause I couldn't afford my apartment anymore.  But that he needs to be protected from me like I am trying to cheat or steal his money. I am in a position to do that if I wanted to but I wouldn't.  I do my best to be as up front and honest with T as I can be.  I am looking out for him.  Moving in together has had it's ups and downs.  But I see myself trusting and turning over more decisions to T.  Last night I realized my sister thought I was a gold digger.  That has hurt me so badly.  I was devestated that she could think that of me.  I have always looked up to her and tried to earn her approval.  Well no more.  Years ago when I went thru my divorce I lost my house to forclosure.  Later on she told me how disappointed she was in me over that.  But when I explained how the payments would have been to keep it she understood and agreed with my decision.  Now she is judging me again without all the facts. But I don't think she will ever get the chance to change her mind.  I just want her out of my life forever.  No more jumping thru hoops for her approval.  T told he thinks she might be jealous.  I am making my dreams come true.  I am so happy to be here with T.  Our home is a peaceful place full of love.  My man makes me feel beautiful and desireable, intelligent,and wanted. I feel that I fit, I belong.  Last night after I finished crying I told T that I know we don't have 50 years together to look forward to but I want to enjoy everyday I have with him.  I have been getting bossy about candy.  T is diabetic.  I asked him to please not have it.  It took me 45 years to find him and I want every day I can get with him.  I love him with all my heart. 
Jenny