Hi Blogworld,
I think I have stumbled unknowingly into a relationship. Maybe even The One. MrWantsToBeMoreThanFriends has become a definite Boyfriend. And has been my Rock thru losing Shelly. He has been wonderful to me. We have been friends for awhile. But yesterday we were talking about my hair appointment today. HE TOLD HOW MUCH I COULD HAVE TAKEN OFF MY HAIR!! OMG He was totally serious! He. likes my long hair. He has seen pictures of it shorter and doesn't like it. He even mentioned coming with to supervise. No Honey that is not needed honest. I was thinking about taking off a little more that he wants. My hair is down to the middle of my back and getting in my way. I am getting off track. First he told me on the phone then we talked in person. And I showed him where I wanted to go to. Nope not happening. A belt was mentioned OMG.... So of course I had to push to see where this would go. Asked if he would take his belt to me if I cut my hair short. His reply: No I will walk 2 feet away from you I only want to be seen with a pretty girl. He has also been taking charge of my car maintence. I like this. My car likes this. He started this as a friend. Is his taking charge of things something I should be worried about? Or could I have stumbled across a HOH? He didn't threaten to spank or hit me. He has always been a proper gentleman and never raised a hand to me. But he is definitely the one in charge. What should I keep my eyes open for? I think I may have found what I was looking for but don't want to run blindly. I am keeping my fingers crossed. It is different. Nobody has ever talked to me the way he does.
Jenny
Good luck, Jenny! I'd say to look for the type of man that lets you have friends, is willing to meet your family and friends, and loves you more than anybody else. Also, I think it depends on what you want. If you want/need somebody to dictate your clothes, hair, etc. then he might be what you want. You haven't described enough for me to tell, but if you have a bad feeling in your gut, listen to your internal self and get away, but if you feel safe, protected, then try to get to know him better. Also, pray for wisdom!
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Kitty
Kitty
DeleteIt isn't so much that I need the dictate but that he will stand up to me. I have always been in charge and T will stand up to me and go toe to toe. Physically he has just held me and not let go when I was trying to do to much and over extending myself. As far as my hair goes I never had a guy express an opinion. He notices and compliments little things like my nails or if I put on a different perfume. Because of the age difference(16 years) I have been hesitant to introduce him to my sisters but my kids have met him and like him. And he likes them. Internally I feel safe when I am with him. I tend to take on more than I should and am getting close to burn out. As a caregiver this is really bad for me. There is just something so different here that I really want to see where it goes. Does that make sense?
Jenny
Makes perfect sense:). I sincerely hope it works out for you!
ReplyDeleteLove,
Kitty
Be careful. Be sure he's looking out for your best interests and not his own. Just in general don't be blinded by your attraction to a dominant man. He sounds like he has captured your interest.
ReplyDeleteJust curious how did the belt come up? Not exactly a normal topic..lol..
Stormy
ReplyDeleteT will kid around spanking me. It may start with an erotic one. I haven't brought up DD yet. Too soon for me to. I asked about using the belt to see where he was on punishment spanking. And was glad to hear the answer he gave. You are right about it not being a normal topic. lol..
Jenny